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I am Confused
Hello Friends, Ye koi query nhi hai, ye mera question hai aap sabhi se, hume azaadi mile aaj pure 68 years complete ho chuke hai but firr bhi aaj hum ek bharatvarsh me ji rahe hai jaha females par atyachaar aam baat bahut si NGO's or bahut neta or raj neta apne bhashno me in baato ko uthate hai but firr bhi iska koi khas fal dekhne ko nahi milta, Aaj bhi females ko males se kamm smjha jata hai. Unko respect unke aatmsmman ki kisi ko koi khass kadar pr agar whi baat kisi male ki ho to duniya ki vyakhya(nazariya) hi badal jati hai. Khair mai bhi badi-badi baate nahi karta or sidha apne main mudde ki baat par ata hu. Meri age 24years hai n mai 4 years se ek relation me hu and mera manana hai ke jo freedom, jo dreams mai apne lie chahta hu, wo sabhi chije meri hone wali partner ko bhi mile. Islie maine to apna lifestyle me usko sabse top ka place diya hua hai, mera manana hai ke life agar do log milkar achche se soch smjhkar chalaye to jada achche se hum khud ki growth me aage kadam bda paenge. Isi ke chalte abhi kuch din pehle mai apne ke sath kuch financial baat par kuch discussion kr rha tha and kuch peso ko ivest krne ki baat aai to maine apni lifepartner se discuss krna theek smjha, par tabhi mera friend mujhpar hasta hua bola abe bhai abhi se "joru ka gulam" maine uski baat majak me ese hi jane di, Par uske baad ki jo baat usne mujhse kahi mai sunn kar shock ho gya, means ke aaj ki iss sdi me jha hum GENDER DISCRIMINATION ko dur karne ki baate wha ke youngster's ki ye soch hai. Uska kehna ke bhai, ladkiyo ko itna sar par nahi chadna chahiye and financial bate to unse bilkul nhi karni chahiye kyuki unko sirf kharche kaarne hi ate hai or life ke itne ahem faisle to hum mardo ko hi lene chahiye, Or tujhko ye sab abhi ye sab achcha lg rha shadi ke bad sab badal jaega. To mera swal ye hai kya ye sab kehna ya soch rkhna theek hai, saxh me shadi ke baad life jeene kaa tareeka badal jata hai, kya mujhe ye baat manani chaiye or uski baat par soch vichar krna chahiye. I am confused is tarah ki baate mai kafi logo se sunn chuka hu ke abhi se thoda behave me akad rkho wrna bad koi tumari izzat nhi karega & all, Ya aage ja kr ye lifestyle problems create krega. So, I want answer from you all kis tarah ki soch hume ek hone wali life me kaam aegi..???
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